You and your partner have been paired up with two other players to make up a foursome. After the second hole, you realize that the one golfer plays extremely slow, talks on his cell phone constantly and stands too close to your practice swings. You sigh with annoyance with the realization that it’s going to be a long couple of rounds.
Part of the fun in playing golf is that it provides the opportunity to meet new people and gain new perspectives on the sport. Some golf days are good rounds that flow all the way through the day because you are teamed up with great personalities and the play is steady. Other days, not so much. Occasionally, you may encounter players who just don’t mesh well with the game, making the time spent on the course unpleasant. Although it isn’t the worst scenario a golfer can encounter, knowing how to deal with an annoying player might be able to help you make the best of it.
The first thing you should do is refrain from whacking them upside the head with your club (Just kidding!). Golf players should come to terms with the fact that the annoyance is caused by their unenjoyable mental state due to thinking about the annoying person. They key is not to allow your emotions to take a toll on your focus or your shot. Otherwise, it will greatly affect your performance during the game. Don’t let your perception of how game behavior should be ruin your day of golf.
The annoying golfer you may be stuck playing with most likely won’t even realize they are doing anything wrong and are having a great game. So, what’s the best way to handle the situation?
Accept that all Golfers are Different
When playing at any public golf course in Bucks County, PA or anywhere else, be aware that not everyone is going to play with the same mindset and etiquette, and playing on a public course mean you means you are open to playing with the “public” and all personalities.
Use the Situation to Hone Your Golf Skills
Use the distractions to improve focus and enhance your performance. You can think of it as an opportunity to test your skills of ignoring any distractions, especially if you often compete in tournaments and events.
Focus on Your Own Game
It is said that a good golfer is one who is fully engrossed in their own game. How well you play largely relies on your concentration and focus. Don’t take notice of the other players or be bothered by them while you play.
Voice Your Issue Politely
Using positive communication skills, you can politely confront the player about the issue you are having. Let him or her know how their behavior is affecting you without sounding rude. For example, instead of saying “Don’t you know you’re not supposed to stand there? You obviously don’t know the rules!” say “Would you mind please standing over there? I can see you in my line of sight.”
Always remember, patience is one of the crucial elements to playing a good game of golf. Only you are in control of your swing – so it’s up to you to focus on the solution rather than the problem.